You are in control of your anger
“A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back.”
Proverbs 29:11 NKJV
https://www.bible.com/114/pro.29.11.nkjv
“A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.”
Proverbs 15:1 NKJV
https://www.bible.com/114/pro.15.1.nkjv
Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls.”
Proverbs 25:28 NKJV